Strippers are your new BFF

By Vince Leona

Many girls look at strippers like they are a threat. But according to Sarah Bickerville a waitress from Los Angeles, a stripper helped her find the love of her life. Sarah was a hopeless romantic who tried just about every type of dating website and dating service that was out there. Melissa was a female stripper who loved Sarah’s diner, and would go there 3 to 4 nights a week after work. Melissa and Sarah developed a friendship. They had a mutual interest in bike riding. So every Sunday the 2 girls would go on long bike rides. Melissa and Sarah became really good friends and started hanging out with each other’s social circles. Sarah instantly fit in with Melissa’s friends, but Melissa did not get the same treatment with Sarah’s friends. Melissa was a gorgeous girl and was obviously threatening to a lot of girls. Sarah’s friends just couldn’t have Melissa around. This upset Sarah to the point where she stopped hanging out with her old friends. Sarah could not understand why the girls couldn’t look past their own insecurities. Also Sarah was ashamed to have friends who were so judgmental of Melissa being a female stripper. Sarah and Melissa’s relationship got stronger and stronger. Melissa invited Sarah to her sister’s wedding where she introduced Sarah to her brother Matt. It was love at first sight and Sarah and Matt were inseparable. Two years later Melissa was the maid of honor in Sarah’s wedding with Matt. The moral of the story is not to judge a book by its cover. Sarah was an awkward girl working the graveyard shift as a waitress who had trouble finding love. Melissa was a female stripper who instantly gets judged by girls the minute she tells them what she does for a living. Both of these girls found an amazing friendship, and Sarah found the love of her life. It is a good judge of character when someone can look past their differences and actually find common ground. This is how the greatest friendships are developed. The only fair way to judge people is whether or not they are a good person. Sarah and Melissa were both looking for something that they were missing and they found it in each other. Sarah lost friends standing up for what is right! If you have a friend getting brushed off by your group because of things they can’t control, you can make a stand like Sarah did. If a person has problems with people for reasons like what they do for a living, are not worth your energy. Sometimes it is hard, but you have to move on and drop the friends that are negative or that are dragging you down. Just because you have known someone the longest, that doesn’t make them your best friend. A best friend is based on who makes you a better person. Sarah and Melissa made each other better people. So maybe one day a female stripper will become your BFF. Keep your eyes open and your life might take a turn for the better.


It’s A Man’s World

By Vince Leona

The male stripper has had a definite resurgence in the past year. The industry is up nearly 35% and there is no sign of it slowing down anytime soon! Male strippers have been under the radar for a long time. Many of them make an excellent living, but with the recent Magic Mike phenomenon, they have been in higher demand than ever. In fact business has been so good that many male strippers have quit their day job. In an industry dominated by women, it is good to see the guys get their due! They have always worked just as hard as the ladies, but were kind of in the background. Well that is no longer the case!

Male strippers in a lot of cases are now making more money than the ladies. These guys are fulfilling a fantasy for women. Whether they have always wanted a hot fireman to save them, or want a guy who looks like Thor to throw them around. Women are now seeing why their male counterparts have enjoyed getting strippers for such a long time. Women are just now seeing how much fun it is to have a guy strip for them. A lot of women are afraid to say exactly what they want. But with the popularity of “50 Shades of Grey” they are obviously ready to make their voices heard. No longer will they sit in the background and let the boys have all of the fun. They are ready to roar! These women want to be heard! They want to be loud and in your face. If they want to get a male stripper, than that’s exactly what they are going to do!

Women have really become like guys in the past year! They are not afraid to talk about sex, and aren’t afraid to say what they want. Because of this new aggressive attitude, Stripping has really become a man’s world! The men are now in a lot of cases in higher demand than the women. National Male Stripper websites like have been overwhelmed with the amount of orders that come in. The ladies voices have been heard and men can now make a good living from stripping. It is no longer a weekend job. Stripping has become a great career for handsome and athletic guys! Who wouldn’t want women screaming and throwing money at them?

The most successful strippers treat it like a career. They work out every day, watch what they eat, and are always on the cusp of the next big thing. Jessie James a stripper in Los Angeles has incorporated “Gangnam Style” into his routine! The ladies can’t get enough, especially when he is in his Cowboy Hat. It is all about having fun and entertaining your audience. Jessie told me that if he isn’t having fun, then he knows that the ladies aren’t having fun. Since his job is to bring the fun to the ladies, he takes it seriously. Congrats guys! You have proven once again that it’s a man’s world!