The normal consensus when it comes to Bachelorette parties is that it is an event for single ladies. According to recent data, that can’t be further from the truth. The data actually shows that married women look forward to Bachelorette parties much more than single women. Think about it… A single girl is out and about meeting fun and interesting people all the time. A married woman is with the same guy all the time. Whether or not they have a great marriage, it gets very monotonous. This is a night of fun, and something completely different for the married women. I talked to Darlene McNeil a married woman of 15 years who told me about the excitement of going to a Bachelorette party this coming weekend.

VL: So the big day is Saturday! Are you excited?

DM: Oh my God, I have been counting down the days! I have been sending my girls countdown emails. I am so excited.

VL: What does your husband think about you going to a Bachelorette Party?

DM: Who cares (laughs)!! No all joking aside, he knows that he can trust me and that I am a good girl. I am just going to have a little fun.

VL: Why do you think married women are so fired up to go to Bachelorette parties?

DM: It is a way to escape my daily life! Not that I don’t love my life, but it is fun to get away from the kids, and the bills, and my husband, and to just drink and have fun with the girls.

VL: Are you ladies getting any entertainment?

DM: You know it baby! We are going to a show with male performers, and then we are having 2 guys come to us. We have a private room in a club, so it should get pretty wild. I love a gorgeous guy and we have some hotties coming.

VL: What else do you ladies have planned?

DM: Dinner and dancing. It will be a lot of fun. We will have all of our college girlfriends, work girlfriends, and a lot of our friends that live out of town. I am certain that it should be a great night.

VL: Sound like a perfect get together with the girls.

DM: It really came together perfectly.

VL: What is your favorite Bachelorette party moment from the past?

DM: Believe it or not, we actually went camping for my friend Janet’s Bachelorette Party. Roasted Marshmallows, tents, sing-along’s, we did it all. We drank all night by the camp fire, and even had some entertainment come out. We had them wear a Bear Costume and hang outside the tent. My friends almost peed their pants. It was a hoot.

VL: You ladies sound like a lot of fun!

DM: You better believe it baby. You only live once. Time is going to fly by regardless. You can do it while laughing or while crying. I choose laughing. I live life to the fullest.

By Dave Dakota

While guys are caught up with their fantasy football teams, their wives and girlfriends are getting their fantasy’s filled somewhere else. With the recent popularity of “Magic Mike’ and “50 Shades of Grey,” male strippers have had a resurgence. According to the top male stripper companies in the country, the male stripper fantasy is back with a vengeance. Women seem to have the same mindset that guys are notorious for. They know what they want, and are not afraid to ask for it. The day of the shy, tame girl is over. Women are not afraid to have their sexual fantasy’s fulfilled, especially if they are not getting it at home.

73% of women said that the #1 reason they would consider looking elsewhere to fulfill their sexual desire is lack of attention from their boyfriend or husband. This should be a major wakeup call for guys! Instead of worrying about whether to start Tom Brady or RG3, maybe more attention should be paid to her fantasies. Women are like rabid animals looking for that sexual fix just as much as guys are. Sometimes getting a stripper is all they need to light that fire. In a survey conducted with 100 married guys, 63 of them said they would trade sex on a Sunday for a Fantasy Football victory. Something is really wrong with this data. How do guys lose that need for sex, and prefer winning a game that is played by 13 year old kids?

This explains the “50 Shades of Grey” phenomenon. Women are sick of their husband acting like their little boy. They are sick of laying out his outfit for the day. They are sick of him and their 10 year old son both wearing the same Philadelphia Eagles jogging suit. They are sick of him wearing tighty whities. The man that used to drive them wild has become a lame bore. The man that they were excited to see has become someone they cannot stand the site of. Women are looking for a MAN!! Not a little boy. They want a man that will take control and ravage them. Women want a guy who will fulfill their fantasies.

Unlike men, women move into their sexual prime as they get older. They want to explore themselves, and want someone to take them on an unforgettable ride. Women want a guy who is not afraid to take them on a sexual adventure. When a husband of 7 years is just getting through sex because he wants to watch the game, he needs to understand that there is a guy on deck waiting for his wife to come running to him. Men need to know that this guy on deck fantasizes about the same woman that he ignores. Since most women are not willing to stray from their husband, a male stripper gives them fix that they are looking for. We are in a time where women are having a sexual resurgence. If their husbands and boyfriends don’t step up to the plate, they will be left in the dust.